Have you realised that ignoring the urge is not a solution in
your case? Are you finding it hard to live a normal life because
inside you feel a turmoil of emotions? Have you been dressing in secret
and found that although you are married, you're having serious thoughts
about scratching that itch in your behind?
Being happy in the turbulent world we live in isn't easy
and for many of the transvestites and transexuals I've met, was often
set against a backdrop of self-hate, fear, guilt, marital strife and
inner
frustration. The key to finding your happiness lies in knowing the right
things - look at me! I'm a girl most of the time, but I have a fantastic
relationship with a drop dead gorgeous babe. I own my own house, drive
a brand new executive car, have all the girly treats and pampering
I could
ever want and have an amazing social life that encompasses people of
all ages, sexuality and social status. I also lead a secret double
life as
a well adjusted and popular gentleman without difficulty. Oh, and if
you hadn't already noticed, I'm totally in love with myself too! I'm
so glad
to be born me, and I don't think I've "missed out" on having
a "normal" life because of the way I was born - far from it,
I'm the first to benefit from being a natural born ladyboy.
Could you imagine how good it must feel to be completely comfortable
with who you are? What difference would it make to your life
to know that people loved you and accepted you as you are? What impact
would it have on the quality of your daily life? Do you think that you
can work better and achieve more if you are happy or sad? How do I do
it? Here are some pointers to get you started.